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Friday, July 9, 2021

Becoming an emperor.

Conquer others with inclusiveness.  

Being nothing means infinite possibilities:

Types of Leaders.

Creating Leaders.

Link to this article.

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Thursday, December 20, 2012

Marriage Promises & Vows.

M A R R I A G E - is a divine bond, between a Man and Woman. Lust is a natural emotion of humans. And Lust is also the most powerful emotion. It is like a wild untamed beast, if not controlled and tamed. Thus marriage is a ritual which controls the lust with principles and promises. Marriage is all about Promises and Vows. Joining of two bodies into one single soul. It is about living a life of sacred principles.  Thus Lust gets a proper meaning only after marriage.

Lust is one of the emotions existing in nature. Which is responsible for the existence of Life on planet earth. Without Lust none of the animals would have involved in reproduction. Lust can be defined as a form of happiness experienced while having intercourse. But Lust is a very strong emotion which must be controlled, to tame the wild. Marriage is a set of laws to experience physical Lust between woman and man. Marriage creates good health which is possible with Loyalty and Gentleness. Lust is good with gentleness and Loyalty.

I think human mind is wild and crazy, has no boundaries, it is not tamed, and it can thus think and dream with infinite limitations. Thus we should stick to principals in order to have a healthy and controlled mind, body and soul. That is what we call as meditation, in other words cleansing and controlling our ideas and channelizing our thoughts in the right direction, to achieve our humble objective, with optimism, brotherhood, love and compassion. To walk on the right path of life. In other words, implementing meditation in our everyday life, also called as KARMA. What we sow is what we reap. It is very important to be a role model, so that others can follow on these foot prints.

Read More:

https://goo.gl/vCjNzN

 http://realizations-by-manoj-kargudri.blogspot.com/2012/08/relationships-in-life-partnerships-in.html#sex-marriage )

Monogamy, is a form of marriage in which an individual has only one spouse during their lifetime.

(From Wiki: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monogamy )

An husband would never want his wife, to sleep with another man. Similarly an wife would never want her husband, to sleep with another woman. Both of them promise to live their entire life together. They promise each-other to help and share everything. They promise to live a truthful humble life, never to lie to each other. To take care of each others health and wealth. To achieve happiness and prosperity with peace.

Marriage vows are promises each partner makes to the other, during a wedding ceremony. It consist of what characteristics each would bring in another, what do they look forward to in their Lives. Both the partners decide freely and without reservation, to give themselves to each other in marriage. They would honor each other as husband and wife for the rest of their lives. They would accept children lovingly from God, and bring them up according to the law of society. Thus both join their right hands, and declare their marriage. Both promise to be truthful in good and bad times, In sickness and in health, to love and honor all the days of their lives. For better and worse, for richer and poorer, until death do them part. They exchange wedding rings as a sign of love and fidelity.

Have you ever wondered, why couples who are married a long time, begin to look a lot like each other? People, often unconsciously, mimic the facial expressions, of their spouses in a silent empathy and that, over the years, sharing the same expressions, shapes the face similarly. You begin to age together in the energy you share, throughout your marriage, and your faces begin to age accordingly.

NY Times publication:

http://www.nytimes.com/1987/08/11/science/long-married-couples-do-look-alike-study-finds.html

http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2011-10/fyi-why-do-old-married-couples-look-alike

The Seven Vows of Hindu Marriage: (Also known as Samskara, Saptapadi, or Seven Steps.)
These are beyond mere promises. Commitments of two souls to become one.
Seven pheras circles around fire to establish a ritual. The essence of this resides within couples hearts.

{ First phera vow }
May this couple be blessed with an abundance of resources and comforts, and be helpful to one another in all ways.
Couples Pray to the Gods for nourishing pure food and prosperity.
* The Husband requests his wife to offer him and their children, Food, Nourishment, welfare and happiness at all times.
* The Wife requests him to take the responsibility of, the household, food and finance.

{ Second phera vow }
May this couple be strong and complement one another.
This is for mental, physical and spiritual strength to lead a healthy life.
* The Groom requests her to fill him with strength and courage, so that together they can protect the household and their children.
* The Bride promises to fill his heart with courage and strength at sorrow.
That she would rejoice in his joys. She promises to please him at all times with sweet words.
And to take care of the family and the children. And requests him to love none other but her as his wife.
Together they would defend their family and home.

{ Third phera vow }
May this couple be blessed with prosperity and riches on all levels.
Prayer for preservation of wealth and prosperity in life.
* The Groom with her presence in his life, wishes their wealth and prosperity to grow more.
That he shall look upon all other woman as his sisters. They would educate their children to live a longer life.
* The Bride vows to love him with single minded devotion as her husband.
She will treat all other men as her brothers. Her devotion to him will be that of a pure wife.
They will be faithful to each other and lead a spiritual life.

{ Fourth phera vow }
May this couple be eternally happy.
The couple invokes the gods for joy and peace, by mutual love and trust in all walks of their life.
* The Groom says that her presence in his life is sacred and auspicious. May they be blessed with obedient and noble children with a long life.
* The Bride vows to enrich herself from head to toe, with sandalwood paste and fragrance for him.
To serve and please him in every possible way she can.
They declare their good fortune in marrying, and pray for a happy life and good children filled with all health and wealth.

{ Fifth round vow }
May this couple be blessed with a happy family life.
The couple appeals to the lords for the welfare, of all living beings in this world and wish for
virtuous, noble and heroic children.
* The Groom prays god to bless her and may their loved ones live long and share in their prosperity.
* The Bride vows to share his happiness and grief.
With his love in her life, she will trust and honor him. To fulfill all his wishes.
They prey for the happiness and well being of their family. To have righteous and obedient children.

{ Sixth round vow }
May this couple live in perfect harmony, true to their personal values and their joint promises.
The couple prays the gods to give them a blissful life.
* The Groom requests her to fill his heart with joy and peace at all times.
* The Bride vows, in all righteous acts, in material prosperity, and in enjoyment of acts approved by the divine, to stand by him.
They will always be by each others side in their endeavors.

{ Seventh phera vow }
May this couple always be the best of friends.
The couple prays for mutual understanding, loyalty and companionship.
* The Groom prays their love and friendship is now eternal.
They have attained a spiritual union blessed by god. Now she is one with him and he offers his life to her. Thus wish their marriage will be forever.
* The Bride accepts, as per the laws of God and the sanctity of the holy scriptures, that she is his wife now. All promises they made, were made with a pure mind. They will be truthful to each other in all matters and they will love each other forever.
They will forever belong to each other, and will remain friends forever.

Traditionally it is believed that the FIRE (Agni) bears witness, to the taking of these seven vows.

Marriage is not a simple love affair, it's an ordeal to sacrifice the ego to a relationship, in which two have become one.

Read More:

https://goo.gl/vCjNzN 

http://manoj-kargudri-winning.blogspot.com/2012/12/marriage-seven-vows.html

In Hindu marriage the bride and groom come to the altar as God and Goddess, in human form.
In many parts of India the bride is considered Lakshmi, Goddess of Fortune.
And groom is her consort Vishnu, the Great Preserver.
The bride and groom walk down the aisle feeling divine.

Hindu wedding is full of rituals and traditions.
Marriages are definitely fascinating.
But Hindu weddings are really something to look out for.
Each and every ritual has a very deep meaning.
Saath Phere and Saat Kasam is something we speak about every now and then.
Let us look into the real meaning of seven Vows of Hindu wedding:

The bride and the groom take the first step of the seven vows and take an oath that they will together live a prospered life which is full of health and good deeds.
Anything that hinders this will be kept away.

Second of the seven pheras, have the promise to develop the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual powers.

During the third vow, the couple promises to earn a living and increase the material wealth so that they can live a good quality of life.

The fourth vow says that the couple should increase mutual love, faith and understanding.

The fifth vow is for the sake of having good children for whom they will be responsible.

The sixth step is for self-control of mind, soul and body.

Now the seventh and the last vow, is that they promise that they would be true and loyal to each other and would remain companions forever.

Read More:

https://goo.gl/vCjNzN 

http://myshaadi.in/main/indian-wedding-blog/view/8/The-Seven-Vows-of-Hindu-Marriage

http://trueeventindia.com/hinduism/wedding-in-india/wedding-facts/seven-vows-of-marriage-saat-pherey/

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Winning-Publications.
*Significance-of-Nava-ratna (Nava-Graha). *Amazing-Constructive-Vibrations. *Manoj-Kargudri. *The-piercing-of-the-ears (karnavedha) . *Nature-Cure. *Steps-to-improve-work-place. *Steps-Involved-In-Relationships. *Some-of-the-aspects-which-materialize-the-relationships.

*Achieving Happiness *Significance-of-Nava-ratna (Nava-Graha). *Amazing-Constructive-Vibrations. *Manoj-Kargudri. *The-piercing-of-the-ears (karnavedha) . *Nature-Cure. *Steps-to-improve-work-place. *Steps-Involved-In-Relationships. *Some-of-the-aspects-which-materialize-the-relationships.

Article: Achieving Happiness:

Self healing is possible with self realization. Realizing ones own purpose of life. Every one has a certain constructive purpose, to be achieved, by utilizing the talents embedded within.
Giving constructive contribution to ones own life, to provide happiness to oneself.
Happiness is possible with satisfaction. Satisfaction is possible with justice. Justice is possible with freedom.
Freedom is possible with constructive optimism, thus freedom is lost when miss utilized destructively.

Quote: Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up after every fall. – Confucius.

This Link to my blog article explains natures inter connections:
(1) The Divine Ratio, PHI, Fibonacci Series.
http://tantratrackthoughts.blogspot.com/2006/09/divine-ratio-phi-da-vinci-code.html
(2) Amazing Constructive Vibrations.
http://winningpublications.blogspot.com/2007/11/amazing-constructive-vibrations.html

Every thing is inter connected by intelligence.
Intelligence is nature’s creation. Every thing in nature communicates using vibrations. Intelligence can either be constructive or destructive. Thus to protect nature, god is a concept of constructive optimism, which is binding the nature. Thus the concept of god has been related to constructive concepts, such as love, compassion, brotherhood, etc to enhance peace and prosperity. To generate the positive vibrations in human mind, thus to influence any other living or non-living natures creation.
Any kind of destructive concept, such as anger, hatred, frustrations, etc can eventually propagate negative vibrations.

Religion is just the outer skin, where as spiritual peace is the inner core of every religion. The ultimate aim and purpose of every religion is to achieve this inner peace. Killing animals leads to destructive vibrations of fear and misery. The animal while being killed, experience great amount of pain, thus the entire body of killed animal contains cells with negative vibrations of pain and misery. The body cells of killed animals contain these destructive vibrations, which in turn enter the body of others when consumed.
Thus vegetarianism helps achieve peace and harmony.

2007-12-09
Significance of Nava-ratna (Nava-Graha):

It’s said that nava-ratna meaning “nine gems” eliminates ones dhoshas and brings good luck. It a combination of nine auspicious stones strung together to ensure the well-being of the wearer. Navaratna consists of the vajra (diamond), manikya (ruby), marakata (emerald), vidruma (coral), mukta (pearl), Nila (sapphire), gomedaka (garnet), pusyaraga (topaz) and vaidurya (cat's eye). This combination of gems is considered highly auspicious for the wearer. It also protects against danger and disease. The nine gems have astrological significance as it is believed that the nine planets of the solar system that watch over a gem each, empower them.
Each gem in the ornament is attributed specific healing powers. The ruby protects against poisonous substances and evil spirits. It is a source of energy to the wearer and changes color if the wearer suffers from ill health. The emerald is an antidote to all stomach complaints, stings and bites. It was worn in ancient times by mariners to prevent storms. The coral is said to cure diseases and enhance memory. Pearls give strength to the heart and are often used in Ayurveda. The sapphire is said to increase devotion, due to its blue color, which is considered the color of enlightenment. Garnets are often used to imitate precious stones. Topaz is used for occult practices. The gems and its prescribed weight are decided according to the wearer's astrological chart.It’s a strong belief that nava-ratna will eliminate all the negative energy vibrations when worn by human beings. It means to say that it purifies the sole with a good belief. When a human being achieves this purified sole it’s obvious that it spreads the illumination wide across. It’s again the same contagious appreciation of optimism for peace, justice, freedom and liberty. A person must be like this nava-ratna. One must purify the soles when ever it comes in contact with the other.

We have to resolve the issues peacefully. We have to put our best efforts with calmness, gentleness, love and compassion. We have to avoid hatred, enmity and criticism. Free and fare constructive communication is one of the basic rights of human beings. It’s one of the means to achieve freedom and liberty. Freedom and liberty are contagious where communication is the means to spread it across. In other words it’s impossible to achieve freedom and liberty without communication. A strong belief in freedom and liberty is a must. We have to communicate without any fear, to spread it effectively, thus to create an effective team work. We can avoid fear with strong faith in optimism. We have to dream of a secured peaceful future, thus put effective efforts to achieve the objective. We have to put our efforts without any frustration. We must never loose hope. Things will definitely change as the history proves that change it self is not constant. In other words history keeps repeating. Good things will definitely happen. The more effective the efforts, thus are the results. Lets be humble to all our loved ones so that we can achieve our objective. Good things are possible only with the blessings and wishes of the loved ones. It’s a collective effort.

*[Read: Creating Beautiful World.] *[Doing the job of goodness.] *[Amazing Constructive Vibrations.]

*[Read: Realizations In Real Life – Please be gentle and humble.] *[Liberate the Sole.]

2007-11-25
Amazing Constructive Vibrations.

What happens when Human Beings are Happy or Sad?

Let us be constructive and save this planet earth. What happens when we shout and yell at some one? What happens when we love and care someone? Why are anger, frustration and hatred destructive? Why there is happiness when we are liberated from desires. How vibrations play a prominent role in nature’s creation?

Change in the crystalline structure of water when exposed to various vibrations. Healthy growth of plants when exposed to various musical instruments. Role of vibrations in the cosmic healing.

Role of vibrations in mental communications. Telepathy is a science of communication between brains. How neurons work? It’s amazing to note how chemistry, physics and mathematics are interconnected. Example: Brain is physical, neurons are chemical, intelligence is mathematical. Natures creation is a mystery until and unless it has a approved reasoning, analysis and explanation. Mr. Edgar Cayce had an amazing telepathic capability to heal various deceases. Sybil Leek is one of the persons who has contributed to telepathic research.

Prayers become powerful when certain amount of people are involved. Snakes don’t have ears, they use vibrations to interact with the nature. Bats cannot see in the dark. They use vibrations i.e. sound waves to interact with the nature. Gravitational pull of earth to orbit the sun. Ocean tides are formed by the gravitational attraction of the Moon and Sun on the water in the ocean. Every creature created by nature has a certain degree of intelligence. Intelligence itself is a form of vibration. This is applicable not only to a small ant but also to a big elephant.

Healing therapy using vibrations and Magnets. Belief in God is a concept of optimists which is a constructive phenomenon for peace and prosperity. Which is holding the entire universe with love and compassion. When we can believe that Devil exists, why can't we believe that God too exists? What happens if we don't believe in God's creation of nature? Everything is interconnected with love and compassion. Role of Fibonacci series and Da Vince code in nature's creation.

What can happen when humans are happy? Are they creating any constructive vibrations? What happens when humans suffer from injustice and hatred? Are they creating any destructive vibrations? Can we practice forgiveness and compassion to create constructive vibrations? Is it a justice to respect human beings? What will happen if we don’t respect the natures creation. Please read the above links to find out why we have to be constructive to protect the mankind.

The Divine Ratio, PHI, Fibonacci Series:
http://tantratrackthoughts.blogspot.com/2006/09/divine-ratio-phi-da-vinci-code.html

PLEASE READ THESE ARTICLES:
* Miraculous Messages from Water. How water structure reflects our consciousness.
* How Music Affects Your Kids. What Parents Need to Know.
* Research studies on effects of music on plants.
* Cosmic Healing Therapy (CHT) is a new and very powerful.
* What is cosmic healing? It is channeling of cosmic energy or prana to a patient who is sick or in pain.
* Examples of Mental Telepathy in NDEs. * The Power of the Mind.
* Methods of Communication: Mental Telepathy, its not just! * Telepathic Communication.
* How do neurons work in brain? * How do neurons work in brain? by Eric Renfro.
* Edgar Cayce and the Cosmic Mind. * Who was Edgar Cayce. * Sybil Leek in Relationships.
* SNAKES ARE DEAF. * Snakes cannot hear. But they can feel things from the.
* Vibration and animal communication. * How Bats See in the Dark. *Wiki-Bats.
* Earth is in a stable orbit around the Sun. * Gravitation is a natural phenomenon.
* Ocean tides are formed by the gravitational attraction of the Moon.
* The Nature and Attributes of God. * THE SUBCONSCIOUS: MIND THE CONNECTING LINK.
* Magnetic Therapy: Using Magnetic Energy for Health. * What is Aurora Colour Magnetic Crystal Sound Healing?
* "Fibonacci series" and "Da Vince" - Museum of Harmony and the Golden Section.
* Mason's Meditations: On Suffering. * Your Thoughts Create Your Future.


*[Read: Significance of Nava-Ratna (Nava-Graha).] *[Liberate the Sole.]
*[Read: The piercing of the ears (Karnavedha).] *[Terrible Fight.]

20071026
The Piercing of the Ears (karnavedha) is a prescribed sacrament for hindus

The piercing of the ears (karnavedha) is a prescribed sacrament (sanskaara) for all Hindus. Furthermore, for females the piercing of the nose as soon as puberty, or before marriage is also stipulated in Hindu Scriptures such as Sushruta Samhita (Chikitsa Sthana Chapter 19).

According to the Hindu Ayurvedic scriptures, the piercing of the nose near a particular node (marma) on the nostril lessens the pains of a woman's monthly cycle and facilitates childbirth. These crucial nodes on the human body are known as ‘marma’, not dissimilar to acupuncture points. In the religious context, at marriage the bride and a married woman are considered the personification of the Hindu goddess of fortune Lakshmi, this transformation being achieved by the sixteen beautification processes known as Shodash Shringar.

The different components of Shodash (Solah) Shringar are; Bindi: Symbolising the bride's suhaag (resolve to the marital relationship). It is usually a circular red dot of vermillion powder, however, nowadays bindis are usually more elaborate and the self-adhesive variety. Sindoor Vermillion powder symbolises suhaag and is applied in the parting of the hair. Maangteeka: A pendulum like ornament generally made of gold; it is worn in the parting of the hair. Anjana: kohl the fourth step in Solah Shringar is the application of kaajal or kohl on the edges of the upper and lower eyelids. Nath: A nose ring/pin or stud is worn. It can be made of gold, pearl and diamond. Nose pins if worn are not usually removed by Hindus and they are a symbol of a married woman similar to mangal sutra , sindoor and bindi . Mangal Sutra: The sacred marriage vows are thought to be imbibed in the wedding necklace (mangal sutra) made of gold. It may be embellished with diamonds, black pearls or stones. Karn Phool: or earrings Mehendi: Henna Mehndi is a very significant adornment of the bride. The application of mehndi to the bride's hands and feet are a special pre-wedding ritual in the Indian subcontinent and beyond. Choodiyan: Colourful choodiyan or bangles made of glass or gold adorn the wrists of the bride. Traditionally, red bangles are worn at the time of marriage. Baajuband armlets are worn on upper arms. Aarsi A thumb ring Keshapasharachana Beautiful hair arrangement Cummerbund: Cummerbund adorns the waist of the bride, is generally made of gold and jewels. Payal & Bichuas Payal adorns the ankles. It is a thick chain of silver with many small bells attached to it. Composed of silver, bichuas or toe rings are worn on each foot. Attar Anointing with perfume (attar of roses etc.) Bridal dress The adornment of the bride is a crucial part of the pre-wedding and wedding ceremonies. Her mother's family along with the wedding bangles described earlier traditionally presents a new gold nose ornament or 'nath' to the bride. This would occur during the Grah Shanti (shantikarman/sainth) which is a ceremony conducted by a Hindu Priest to spiritually prepare the bride for marriage. At that point a sacred mantra from the oldest Hindu scripture, the Rigveda (Section 10, chapter 85 verse 33) is recited and beckons the assembled married women (suhaagans) to come forth and adorn the bride in the aforementioned method (Solah Shringar), thereby corroborating the religious sanction and antiquity of these practices. Moreover, during the wedding ceremony the bride's hair parting is anointed with vermilion powder as described earlier and reminded by the Priest through the Vedic mantras he recites, that the wearing of the mangal sutra (marriage necklace, sindoor , nath , bangles etc.) ensures a harmonious marriage. There are countless references to these practices in the Hindu scriptures such as the Padma Puran, however, for brevity has not been listed in this testimony. It is wholly discretionary and not obligatory whether Hindu married women wish to heed this advice, just as some Christian married couples choose not wear wedding bands. One can assume that there is merit in these practices as Hindu women have observed them for several thousands of years. Indeed, throughout the Middle East for many thousands of years, women have had their noses pierced and worn nose jewelery. This alludes to the benefit of this act as sanctioned in many religious texts and incorporated into the culture. There are even references to the wearing of nose jewelery in the Bible (Ezekiel 16:12). Hindu women throughout the world has chosen to follow her religious beliefs by wearing a nose pin.


*[Read: Significance of Nava-Ratna (Nava-Graha).] *[The Qualities of Vaishnava.] *[Different Forms of love.]
*[Read: Amazing Constructive Vibrations.] *[Sanskrit Peace Translations.] *[Liberate the Sole.]

2007-07-01
Nature Cure
Here are some natural cures. Prevention is better than cure. These are ancient cures which are natural thus don't have any harmful side effects.

ACUPRESSURE POINTS:
Facial Hand Ear Feet Acupressure Points.

http://ampuku.sharepoint.bcentral.com/Reflexology/reflex.html
http://www.crystalinks.com/acupressure.html


Acupressure points index
Index to the acupressure points for emotional well-being.
http://www.eclecticenergies.com/acupressure/indexemotional.php


FREE BOOKS:
herbal formulas. Health for seniors, for women. Natural Home Remedies. Remedies for Children.
http://www.mothernature.com/Library/Bookshelf/index.cfm


ACUPRESSURE:
Full Body Acupressure Points. Shiatsu: Press and Stretch to Release
Blocked Energy. Shiatsu Body stretches.
http://www.mothernature.com/Library/Bookshelf/Books/46/3.cfm

MAGNETIC INFLUENCE:
Reflexology chart for acupressure points in the foot
http://www.imsolution.com.au/reflexology.html


LIFE TRANSFORMATION:
http://www.emotionalfreedom.com/stepsoftat.html

2007-04-04
Steps to improve work place.

* Learn to like the people you work with. Look for things you can respect in your co-workers. You don't want to send signals that you don't like them, because they're not going to like you either.
* Communicate often with your supervisor. Let your boss know you understand both your role and his – he's more likely to think of you as an employee who "gets it." Let your boss know that you realize the good purpose of your work and life.
* If you're asked to join your boss or co-workers at a social event, don't skip a good networking opportunity.
* Do not be afraid to socialize with your boss. Things appear to us the way we look at them. Have a clean and clear view of your objective. Good purpose helps in strengthening the objective.
* Socialize with your co-workers. Every relationship has a meaning we need to give them a name. Look at them as a lovable person with good intension and brotherhood.
* Make your co-workers feel good about themselves. Appreciate their work and praise them publicly. Let them feel loved with compassion, sharing and caring. Be calm, gentle, humble and stable.
* If you were recruited by a specific employee or manager, make sure he or she always knows you are grateful.
* Never violate a confidence. Your value will skyrocket. Workplace consists of different individual personalities, we are all different people, at the same time we are all united at work place to achieve a noble good purpose. we have a objective to achieve justice, satisfaction and happiness.
* Never refuse an assignment if you can help it. It never hurts to help out when you can.
* Know your supervisor's expectations.
* Never speak ill of the company. Always confess, seek and pray for good things to happen.
* If you are unhappy, do not broadcast it at work. Even if you're looking for another job, don't make it public knowledge that you're not satisfied.

Steps Involved In Relationships:

Communication plays a key role in building friendships. As seen in the figure the core remains “family” or a relationship which is tightly bond. Best friends usually or likely convert and turn to be family members. Likewise if we analyze, it’s a process which takes different levels to come to the core i.e. “family”, in other words a stranger cannot become a family member suddenly. Initially we are all “strangers” before we meet, after we meet we tend to be friends. After being friends and understanding the comfort levels we convert ourselves to “best friends”. Best friends are likely to become family members. In all the above understanding plays a key role. It’s a step by step procedural approach to relationships. Some times we understand the importance of relationships only when we loose them. As said better late than never, we got to have patience and need to make efforts to build them. Good things are hard to build but are easy to break, thus its not wise to break the close relations without a proper analysis nor its wise to create a strong relationship without proper understandings. We got to put efforts and leave the rest for destiny to decide. Best of luck!


* [Read: Relationships-and-Happiness!] *[God-gave-us-everything.] *[Steps-Involved-In-Relationships.] *[Life-is-full-of-Tests.]
*[Aspects-which-materialize-the-relationships.] *[Better-to-create-one!] *[“Relationships-Partnerships in Life”.]

Some of the aspects which materialize the relationships.

We can see that relationships happen provided under certain conditions. If we are ready to discuss and accept our past and future with clear and proper communication. If we are truthful and faithful. If each others future expectations match together. If we prove that we are not going to break our relationship regardless of any circumstantial situations. If we believe, understand and have faith in ourselves. If we conclude that we stand together as one, no matter what may come to break us. If we decide to take joint decisions with proper understanding and analysis of issues. We need a determination that under any circumstances we cannot break once the decision is made and the relationship is materialized in real life situation. If we got to make a decision in relationships then a physical communication is a must, without which relationships cannot materialize. Open and straightforward discussion and analysis are very necessary for relationships to materialize.
Its a constructive effort to create good things with prayers and blessings. Its the compassion, brotherhood, faith and belief to achieve a meaningful purpose in life. It would be a fantastic venture, if we can create something beautiful by joining hands. Great ideas are appreciated only when they are expressed. Open dialogs with transparency is the key to teamwork. Strong relationships are possible with constructive appreciation and proper planning. Quality is too important, as Quantity is appreciated only when it has Quality. To create Quality we definitely need innovative personalities who can dream of optimism. Who can visualize clean and clear conceptual planning. Who have the experience of creating unique things with perfection. Who can establish the confidence of hope in reality. Who can have a strong faith and belief in stability and growth. Good things will happen only when we appreciate great ideas. Lets confess, seek and pray to achieve our humble objectives. Its a collective effort to create and resolve issues peacefully. We tend to carve our personalities with the company of friends we create.

A small spark lites the lamp for guidance. The same small spark can even destroy the creation.
May lord bless his creation, with his wisdom of creation.
All BIG things start with a SMALL first step.

* [Read: Relationships-and-Happiness!] *[God-gave-us-everything.] *[Steps-Involved-In-Relationships.] *[Life-is-full-of-Tests.]
*[Aspects-which-materialize-the-relationships.] *[Better-to-create-one!] *[“Relationships-Partnerships in Life”.]